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Sunday, December 30, 2007 11:30 PM


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new year is coming!! woohoo..
but guess wat..?
when every1 are busy partying we..MMU students r busy studying..
aih...terrible rite??
stupid MMU....dunno how to fix holidays properly..
aihh....

exams like tomolo n studying's been so so...
really dun feel like studying...
still wif the holiday mood..
after ACT is Christmas..so wat do u expect??
of coz holiday mood lor....haha
but oh well..have to push lor...1 week exam so hang on dere..
den holiday 3 weeks..woohoo~..cant wait...yeah...haha

okok..back to studying..gambate peeps...winkx*

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in other words...sum ppl jz have so super duper thick face...haha
well i noe sumtimes i oso thick face but sum ppl is thick face all the way n its jz gets on my nerves..
aih...dunno got other intentions or really wanna do it or not....

neway..see ya guys...study hard...=)


Monday, December 24, 2007 9:03 PM


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MERRY CHRISTMAS PEEPS!!!~~~
Wishing u guys all the Best n have a
Blessed Christmas!!~~...


Saturday, December 22, 2007 8:20 PM


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got tis from an email..read it all..=)

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.' There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is.'

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of 'PUB'.

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NO POINTING FINGERS


A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'


The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.'

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.


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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?


A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

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NO OVERPOWERING


Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

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RIGHT SPEECH


There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, 'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you.'

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

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PERSONAL PERCEPTION


Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.' The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

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BE PATIENT


This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home and committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones and hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.


People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

'Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One'


'
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away '


Wednesday, December 12, 2007 5:22 PM


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sorry din update kinda long...
many things been happening...
been practising for ACT..
its next week..
omg..cant believe its next week d....
ahhhh~!

neway..last 2 weeks my cg had steambot...its was fun...
ate alot till was bloated...
after eating we head off to jons bedroom n watch movie "Perfect Stranger".. Heres sum pics..

our cg leader...the cute Esther Siow...luv u....n Happy Belated Bday tho..hehe..hugs...=p

last week..i had a fon call from a fren asking for help..
it was to help 'tumpang' a hurt dog..
the dog met wif n accident n the back bone was broken..
so ok lor..we led dem tumpang our hse...
1st 2 days it was quiet...
after tat it keeps making noise whenever it wanted to move..
very pity tho the dog...my fren came morning afternoon evening n nite jz to look after the dog..
i was amazed at how dey wud actually willingly take care of the dog coz i guess not many ppl does tat already...so ya...was amazed...

eventually..ytd the dog was put to sleep..
for we see no hope of recovery for the dog..
too much money needed to recover the dog...
so...my frens decided dey shud put it to sleep coz it was suffering n neighbours was comlaining d..
so ytd afternoon it went up to Heaven...'All Dogs go to Heaven'
hope it wont have to suffer ne more..=)

may u rest in peace doggy...


Monday, December 03, 2007 10:10 PM


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Enchanted is such a wonderful show...its jz soooo nice...hehe...fairy tale girl wans to be reality girl n reality girl wans to be fairy tale girl..
i guess its mostly wat every girl dreams or wants...
to at least be in a fairy tale story...
where happily ever after was once able to be seen...

the dance was also soo nice...simple n nice..haha...i noe how to dance their waltz...yayness..hehe one day my wedding day shall have tat kind of scene i hope... =D

for a person like me...i really luv tis story..mayb coz i like to day dream sumtimes n think nonsense...haha...but im loving it... the soundtrack for tis movie oso very nice... dled all d..haha... the song tat i like most is from Jon Mclaughlin-So close...used in the ballroom scene tho..n he's so cute...lols...

go watch it lah k..hehe

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midterms started d...2 down 1 more to go..
so far ok lor...tomolo GG paper..haha
hope can do la...dun wanna faill....sobsob....
gonna die soon...weeheeheee~~
winkx*


Saturday, December 01, 2007 10:48 PM


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ever ever after....
hmm...does it still exist?



Yours truly,

With love♥


Just a simple girl living the life that she wants to.


With Loves,

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Scream Love,

Always Be Happy