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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 5:19 PM
She speaks Wat is luv?? When u think of ur past luv, u may view it as a failure. But when u find a new luv, u view da past as a teacher. In da game of luv, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is u know when to hold on and when to let go! U know u really luv sum1 when u want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that u're not part of it. Everything happens for da best. If da person u love doesn't luv u back, don't be afraid to luv sumone else again, for u'll never know unless u give it a try. U'll never luv a person u love unless u risk for luv. Luv strives in hurting. If u don't get hurt, u don't learn how to luv. Luv doesn't hurt all da time. Though da hurting is still there to test u, to help u grow. Don't find luv, let luv find u. That's why it's called falling in luv bcoz u don't force urself to fall.U just fall. U cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If u want to go on, then u have to leave da past as u turn da pages. Luv is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. Da greatest irony of luv is letting go when u need to hold on and holding on when u need to let go. We lose sum1 we love only when we are destined to find sum1 else who can luv us even more than we can luv ourselves. When luv fails, take some time to heal and then get back on da horse. But don't ever make da same mistake of riding da same one that threw u da 1st time. To luv is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken bcoz da greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose ur feelings is to expose true self; to luv is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep da pain. Luv is like a knife. It can stab da heart or it can carve wonderful images into da soul that always last for a lifetime. Luv is supposed to be da most wonderful feeling. It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But sumtimes da things that give u joy can also hurt u in da end. Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and da tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, u should give thanks, for u know, that there were da things that helped u grow. Loving sumone means giving him da freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards u or away from u. Luv is a painful risk to take but da risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience da fullness of humanity and that is luv. Only luv can hurt ur heart, fill u with desire and tear u apart. Only luv can make u cry and only luv knows why. If u are not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take da risk, if u're not ready to feel da pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love. |
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